Shhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh...silence on the way

Moments that have hurt or those which have meant a lot are accompanied by silence is it because we inadvertently choose to keep it so? Or because we get involved with ourselves so much that there is no place for any type of noise to creep in?
It is referred to in many novels, poems, articles,
songs, movies. It exists everywhere just like music does though both can neither be touched both carry
sense, both try to communicate, both can be felt, both have the capacity to victimize you or to take you to a blissful state which sometimes you get to chose and sometimes unfortunately you dont. They exist and are at the opposite ends of the continuum but at the flick of a moment they change to one another.Its good if you understand this silence else not a big deal go switch on to some good music………..